From Reaction to Reflection
In my last blog, Say What You Mean, I talked about how often we struggle to communicate clearly—not because we don’t care or aren’t trying, but because we aren’t truly in touch with ourselves, especially when we’ve been emotionally activated by tension or stress. So the next question becomes: How do you get to know yourself in those moments? How do you build self-awareness in real time so you can respond more intentionally and connect more effectively with others?
How Defensiveness Can Be Good for a Relationship
We know defensiveness in relationships can cause friction. But what if we thought of defensiveness differently? Instead of being a problem, what if we see it as an opportunity?